Photo of the Day: Benjamin’s Spiderman Face
This weekend, Benjamin went to his friend Anton’s birthday. The theme: Dress up as your favorite super hero. Benjamin chose the rather conventional Spider Man. But I think he pulls it off well…
iPhone Photo of the Day: Geometric Shapes In My Office
I was on a conference call this afternoon, and found myself staring at this abstract world…
Pigeon Waiting For the Train
A pigeon waiting for an uptown 6 train at 51st St.
That is all.
A Long Walk: NY 25A (Northern Blvd.)
Since Benji was with his grandparents this weekend, and Paula was going to be out all day having brunch with a friend and then going to rehearsal, I decided that today would be an excellent day for a very long walk.
Having walked Bedford Ave., the longest road in Brooklyn, I decided that today I’d tackle Northern Blvd., the longest road in Queens. For completeness sake, rather than just Northern Blvd. I decided to walk the entire path of New York Route 25A in the County of Queens. I have a crazy idea of walking the entire route, which goes well into Suffolk County. But not today…
NY 25A begins at 21st St., the moment it emerges from the Midtown Tunnel. Here is an illustration:
It takes a right when it gets to Jackson Ave., then proceeds down Jackson until Queens Plaza. After that, I hope you like Northern Blvd., ’cause you’re getting lots and lots and lots of it until the end of Queens and beyond…
Many long roads tell a story, but Northern Boulevard’s story is the story of the car. The pedestrian choosing this road to journey down is much abused. As it meanders along the northern edge of the Sunnyside Train Yard, the senses are assaulted by row after row of car dealerships shouting for attention. The offspring of these dealerships whiz by on the generously apportioned four-lane road. It is not until one crosses the BQE and enters Jackson Heights that the road becomes a little more sane and New York-like.
The Jackson Heights story is an immigrant’s story. While the neighborhood is famous for its Indian and Pakistani population, the Northern Blvd. area is heavily Hispanic. It was here that I stopped for a yummy treat called a Cholado. It’s basically crushed ice, fruit syrup, sweet condensed milk, and lots of fresh fruit. It was refreshing and nutritious and exactly what I needed on a not particularly hot but oppressively humid day.
Then, as I’ve documented before when I tried to walk the length of Astoria Blvd., you hit the Citi Field area, and Northern Blvd. becomes a vehicle-only limited access highway for a bit, so I had to make a detour down to Roosevelt Ave. and walk by Citi Field. Willet’s Point seemed to be bustling today for some reason. I did not investigate why. I was on a mission.
The Flushing story is an immigrant’s story. While the neighborhood is famous for its Chinese population, the Northern Blvd. area is heavily Korean. It was here that I stopped for a yummy treat called Bubble Tea. You all know what bubble tea is, so I can stop pretending I just cut and pasted from the paragraph above. Seriously, though, I never knew how Korean Flushing was until my trip down Northern Blvd. today. The Korean signs decreased in density, but I’d say that there was at least one Korean language sign per block all the way out to Bayside.
After Flushing I reach Terra Incognita. Which is New York speak for “there’s no subway here.” The world suddenly becomes more suburban. The streets of Bayside would not look out of place in any moderately urban suburb, with strip malls, parking, and houses on their own lots. Then, I cross the border between Bayside and Douglaston: Alley Pond Park. I was treated to this unexpected sight:
If it weren’t for the building far in the background, it’d seem almost wild.
I soldiered on knowing the end, or at least my arbitrary end meaning the city line, was near.
Glancing on the side streets of Douglaston and Little Neck, there are hints of cul-de-sac’ed wealth that I’m not used to seeing in New York City. I mean, there’s certainly wealth in New York, but usually it’s shown ostentatiously in Manhattan, rather than secluded in Queens. The area became woodsy, and downright pleasant for a time.
Then, after six-and-a-half hours of constant walking, I saw it. The promised land, to which I would briefly escape as my ancestors before me did considerably more permanently… Nassau County! Not the end of the road, but the end of the road in the city.
After customarily smacking the sign, I turned right around, got a piece of pizza, and sat exhaustedly on the Q12 bus heading back to Flushing. Upon reaching Flushing, I was lucky to be able to just catch the very last Q19 of the evening, which took me within one block of my house… accomplishing in about an hour the journey I’d just walked in almost seven.
Now my feet are the good kind of sore. My nether regions are the bad kind of chafed. But I am filled once again with the sense of accomplishment that comes from a very, very long walk.
Here is the full set of photos from my trip down Northern Blvd.
Vorpal Show Tonight!
Our show is tonight! We’re performing as part of the BFF Improv Comedy show. The admission is $6, and the show starts at 10:30. (I’d previously said $5 and 10:00. But hey, it’s just an extra dollar, and if you get there early, I understand there’s a cool cafe you can hang out in. And who doesn’t like hanging out in cool cafes?)
See you tonight!
Photo of the Day: Benjamin Painting
The cutest part was when he ran into the living room shouting, “I made a masterpiece!”
Photo of the Day: Benjamin
Benjamin is so amazingly photogenic. I took this yesterday afternoon when I saw the light coming from his bedroom’s north-facing window.
It’s About the Relationship Part II: Family
This past weekend, Paula, Benjamin, and I took a conglomeration of trains to visit my uncle in Hartford, Connecticut. We spent the weekend chatting about the family, fractured as it is by divorces, remarriages, spite, and acrimony. I got caught up on who’s not talking to whom, and why. It’s a game I’ve never played, but for some reason both sides of my family has always relished. Thankfully, most of my generation of offspring from these bitter unions seem immune to it.
My uncle asked me when the last time I spoke to my sister and brother was. Honestly, it had been some time. I love and care deeply for my siblings, but between work, parenthood, and performing, it just doesn’t seem like there’s time enough in the day to keep in touch with them. Not to mention other people I love who may not be on this earth for much longer, like my paternal grandparents*.
Relatedly, my father is in town this week. Yesterday evening, we went to Wo Hop, the Mecca of American-style Chinese Food for nostalgia of both food and family. We had a great evening catching up. His healthy suspicion of social networking means he’s not on Facebook**, which means that I don’t even have the vanishingly shallow connection with him that I maintain with most of the rest of the family. I was shocked to learn that he didn’t even know that we’d moved. Of course he didn’t… I talked about that exclusively online. I never took two seconds out of my busy life to call him and tell him about it.
Relationships that are not nurtured wither and die. Facebook is the barest of nourishment. Relationships can survive there, but it’s difficult for them to thrive. I have been allowing many of my most treasured relationships to survive in their deathbeads, with a tiny amount of contact slowly drip-dripping from an IV bag above. How long until everyone I “know” is really a stranger but for their status updates?
So it’s high time I started really making an effort to keep in touch with the people I really care about.
* My maternal grandparents are a lost cause at this point. My grandfather, who I adored as a kid, now detests me because of the melanin content of my wife’s skin. My grandmother is busy fighting off age and travelling around the world and was never particularly interested in being a grandmother. However, the door is never closed if either of them decide to pass through it.
** My genetic father is a Facebook contact, but the only thing I hear from him is his occasional wall-posted Facebook game accomplishment.
What a Difference a Coach Makes
Last night, we had our weekly Vorpal rehearsal at Wonderland. It was our first rehearsal with a real coach. Until now, we’d just kind of been running sets and talking about what felt good and what didn’t. But now we have a coach. Our coach: Geoff Grimwood, teacher and member of various PIT house teams. To begin our session, we told him about what we felt our strengths and weaknesses were, and what we specifically wanted to work on. Then we put on a brief set for him.
I totally stunk up the joint.
I don’t know why I wasn’t performing up to my usual standard. I know I was quite nervous, performing before this skilled audience of one. I was falling back on old habits. Rushing into things. Not concentrating on object work. Getting in my head about all of the above. By the time he mercifully called it, I was ashamed at myself.
Then, like the Wizard of Oz, Geoff pulled exactly what we needed (and not what we thought we needed) out of his bag of tricks. A skilled teacher has a way of doing that. Just when you think you’re awful and have no business being near the stage, they just give you that little course correction and you’re a frickin’ rock star all over again. In my case, all I needed was a testimonial to vary my characters more so they weren’t all super-nervous nellies, and to think about my technique of creating and heightening a scene’s narrative structure.
So our first rehearsal with an actual coach was kind of incredibly successful. I only hope that I can assimilate all of those lessons in time for Friday’s show…
The Ghosts of Spaces Past
I just edited my previous post about our upcoming Vorpal shows to indicate the location of our next show. It’s at Sparks Cafe and Arts Center, at 161 W 22nd St. Very astute readers may notice that this is the location of the former Upright Citizens Brigade theater. It’s a place I haven’t been back to in a long time… a long time…
It is the place where I learned long form improv in the first place. I remember being in that theater for an all-hands meeting when they first got the place. I thought, “This is going to be something big.” I was right. It is the place where I had my greatest improv triumph when I was cast on a house team. It is the place where I had my greatest improv failure when I was cast off of a house team. In a cloud of my own depression, I bailed on the wave just as it began to crest and it took me about eight years to recover…
In about a week, I’ll be performing in the very place where my improv career took off and, like Icarus, flew to close to the sun and came crashing to the ground. Except I didn’t die. And there were no wings involved. Except for the wings of the stage. And the UCB stage didn’t have wings. And the entire interior is probably gutted so even if there were wings they’d have been long gone. And the actual UCB has long since moved. Twice.
So, come see me perform at the place of my long form improv birth. Perhaps I can put some of those performance ghosts to rest once and for all…
Friday, August 20, 2010
10:00 PM
Sparks Cafe and Arts Center
161 W 22nd St.
$5












